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	<title>Brown Girl Swagger</title>
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	<description>Deep Down We're All BLK...</description>
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		<title>The Libertad Urban Farm is Having a Party &#038; Needs to Raise Some Dough!</title>
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The BLK ProjeK continues its hustle to turn a piece of neglected parkland into a flourishing, cooperatively, community owned &#038; run urban farm.
The BLK ProjeK is currently planning the Libertad Urban Farm Family Fun Block Party. The block party will be a day of urban farm awareness, a chance for community members to become acquainted [...]]]></description>
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<p><a target="_blank" title="The BLK ProjeK" href="http://theblkprojek.org">The BLK ProjeK</a> continues its hustle to turn a piece of neglected parkland into a flourishing, cooperatively, community owned &#038; run urban farm.<br />
The BLK ProjeK is currently planning the<strong> Libertad Urban Farm Family Fun Block Party</strong>. The block party will be a day of urban farm awareness, a chance for community members to become acquainted with the possibilities of what an urban farm can mean to their community, how to get involved as well as having a bunch of fun while doing it.  This block party will also serve to help raise funds to continue to get this initiative under way.<br />
There will be performances, workshops, raffles, demonstrations and food. We need your help! Help us to raise funds to pull this off!</p>
<p>Our current date is <strong>September 26th, 2009 from 12-6 PM. The location: Fox Street between Leggett Avenue and 156th street in the Boogie Down Bronx. </strong><br />
All donations are tax deductible, since we are still in the process of applying for 501(c)3 status our current fiscal sponsor is <a target="_blank" href="http://mothersonthemove.org">Mothers on the Move</a>.<br />
If you would like to donate (and we really really really need you to) address all money orders to:</p>
<p>Mothers on the Move 725 Fox Street Apt. 1B Bronx, NY 10455  and place The BLK Projek in the memo line</p>
<p>or if you prefer to pay online you can do so here: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/78810">Brown Paper Tickets- Donate!</a><br />
This promises to be an event that is off the chain and for a good cause so help us make it happen!</p>
<p><a href="http://s303.photobucket.com/albums/nn153/tanyablkgrl/BLK%20GRL/Libertad%20Urban%20Farm/"><code>View a slideshow of work we have been doing</code></a></p>
<p>Check out our YouTube Video</p>
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		<title>HOLISTIC HOOD: Acupuncture &#038; Thursday Yoga</title>
		<link>http://www.blkgrl.com/blog/2009/08/17/holistic-hood-acupuncture-thursday-yoga/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>BlkGrl</dc:creator>
		
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The BLK Projek&#8217;s Holistic Hood project is moving like a fret train people! We have added&#8230;drum roll please- ACUPUNCTURE!
Yep - if you are stressed, overwhelmed, suffering from physical ailments then this is for you. The BLK ProjeK in partnership with Mothers on the Move will be bringing you FREE ACUPUNCTURE.
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<p>The <a href="http://theblkprojek.com">BLK Projek&#8217;s</a> Holistic Hood project is moving like a fret train people! We have added&#8230;drum roll please- ACUPUNCTURE!</p>
<p>Yep - if you are stressed, overwhelmed, suffering from physical ailments then this is for you. The BLK ProjeK in partnership with <a href="http://mothersonthemove.org">Mothers on the Move</a> will be bringing you FREE ACUPUNCTURE.</p>
<p>Our first Free Acupuncture Thursday was August 13th and it went DOPELY. I didn&#8217;t really anticipate the response. I mean even Jessica from <a target="_blank" href="http://squarerootz.net">Square Rootz</a> came up from BK to get poked (lol). Folks didn&#8217;t believe me when I said make an appointment and a few left a lil salty because they had to wait longer than expected.</p>
<p>If you are interested Jomo, our licensed, board certified acupuncturist will be back <strong>THIS THURSDAY, August 20th</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>Where: Mothers on the Move 928 Intervale Bronx, NY 10459</strong></p>
<p><strong>Time: 6:30 - 8 PM</strong></p>
<p><em>APPOINTMENTS STRONGLY RECOMMENDED </em><br />
There is more news! Holistic Hood Yoga has moved to Thursdays!</p>
<p>Join our fabulous Instructor Camellia for Hatha Yoga. If you have never taken yoga before don&#8217;t worry, our class is a great low impact class that will teach you how to cope with stress through, breathing, chanting and holding specific poses.</p>
<p><strong>Where: Mothers on the Move 928 Intervale Bronx, NY 10459</strong></p>
<p><strong>Time: 6:30 - 8 PM</strong></p>
<p><em>PLEASE BE ON TIME AS SPACE IS LIMITED!</em></p>
<p>For more questions or to make appointments please contact Tanya at Tanya (at) BLKGRL (dot) com.
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		<title>CONTEMPLATE: Give the P*ssy Some Respect</title>
		<link>http://www.blkgrl.com/blog/2009/08/17/contemplate-give-the-pssy-some-respect/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being a pussy makes you incapable, it makes you weak, it makes you a WOMAN.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img width="257" height="180" align="left" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/vagina.jpg" />On the face of it this probably seems like a really silly post but lets be real there are things that we have internalized that are misogynistic that we never ever question as such. Case in point…calling someone a <strong>pussy</strong>. This for most men and boys is the ultimate insult.</p>
<p>Walk with me people cuz this is been on my mind for a minute.</p>
<p>A couple a months ago I caught myself calling a <em>particularly whining ass male</em> a pussy. He exhibited <strong>weak</strong> behavior, he was <strong>whiney</strong>, he seemed…<strong>feminine</strong>. The fact that was my line of thinking is what made me stop and ask myself <em>“well what the hell is so terrible about feminine?” </em></p>
<p>Hence the nuanced misogyny that even I, a self-proclaimed womanist has internalized. The more I thought about this, the more ludicrous it seemed. Candidly speaking, pussies are great. I am not just saying that because I have one (well maybe I am). The reality is that they facilitate <strong>birth</strong>, they give <strong>life</strong>, they are the very <strong>embodiment of strength</strong> and some of them are even a great addition to one’s diet ☺.</p>
<p>The reason that being a “pussy” is insulting is because it is associated with being feminine and being feminine is somehow inherently associated with weakness. I could explore this even more but this is a blog not my graduate thesis so I will just allow ya’ll to marinate on it for a minute.  And I know a few of you will say calling someone the male genitalia is insulting too and yes, yes it is. But calling someone a dick has a completely different connotation and it doesn’t speak to weakness or one’s inability, that’s my ultimate point.</p>
<p>Being a pussy makes you incapable, it makes you weak, it makes you a WOMAN.</p>
<p>This may seem trivial but it’s time for us to start thinking about the subtle way we condition our children, ourselves to think about women and what it means to be feminine…or not.
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		<title>COP: The Who&#8217;s That BLK GRL Ad Shoot</title>
		<link>http://www.blkgrl.com/blog/2009/03/24/cop-the-whos-that-blk-grl-ad-shoot/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been inundated the last few weeks. The only thing on my mind has been Holistic Hood and The Who is that BLK GRL Campaign. Well last Sunday we did the damn thang and we want to give our faithful readers a sneak peek at the behind the scenes. 
 

The Who’s That BLK GRL? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>I have been inundated the last few weeks. The only thing on my mind has been Holistic Hood and The Who is that BLK GRL Campaign. Well last Sunday we did the damn thang and we want to give our faithful readers a sneak peek at the behind the scenes. </em></p>
<p><img width="463" height="309" src="http://api.photoshop.com/home_0ea34f04e85d463ea02f7185e658b7ee/adobe-px-assets/ee30efc7c4654a61b9ad37fb56a7fc45" /> <img width="310" height="466" src="http://api.photoshop.com/home_0ea34f04e85d463ea02f7185e658b7ee/adobe-px-assets/e177f863edab4617ba76920f2de87f85" /></p>
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<p>The <em>Who’s That BLK GRL?</em> shoot was freaking <strong>bananas</strong>! I have to say thanks first and foremost to my kick ass crew. <a target="_blank" href="http://aericmg.com">Aeric</a>, the photographer is a lighting and aesthetic genius; <a target="_blank" href="http://www.modelmayhem.com/jiggajewel">Jewel</a>, the makeup artist is knowledgeable and fun; <a href="http://lacyredway.com">Lacey</a>, the hair stylist sweet yet dangerous with a flat iron and brush and last but not least <a target="_blank" href="http://www.kenbarboza.com/stylists/curtis_davis/curtis_davis_frame.html">Curtis</a>, the wardrobe stylist, Jack of All Trades and has mastered every one. The team was just one cohesive, effective styling machine and I could not have been happier.</p>
<p><strong>Now…Drum roll please…</strong></p>
<p><font size="4">The ladies of BLK GRL!</font></p>
<p>I was completely blessed to have the women commit and I would now like to introduce you to the women who I feel embody what BLK GRL is all about. BLK Tees isn’t just about t-shirts, it is another piece of the movement, another part of the struggle. We often seek to express part of ourselves through our clothing. We want the clothing we produce to further help move women of the DIASPORA forward thru positivity imagery that reflects the essence of our heritage and engaging text. The women who wear BLK Tees are conscious of their place in the world, they are creators, they are mothers giving birth to various forms of life and creativity, they are dynamic, they are strugglers.</p>
<p><img style="width: 92px; height: 116px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/Majora_carter.jpg" /><span style="font-weight: bold">Majora Carter</span>- Majora is a world renowned Environmental Justice Activist and MacArthur Fellow(who also happens to be my boss) hailing from the South Bronx. She is most noted for helping to create the Hunts Point Riverside Park, securing 28 million dollars for the South Bronx Greenway and creating and effectively running Sustainable South Bronx from 2001-2008. In July 2008 she founded her consultancy the Majora Carter Group.</p>
<p><img style="height: 116px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/tola_lawal.jpg" /><span style="font-weight: bold">DJ t.elle</span>- DJ t.elle is a 20 something MTV employee by day and an up and coming Hip Hop DJ by night. You can find her burning up the wheels of steel around the NYC area. But this chic isn’t just all hip-hop records and beats, she has plans to create her own non-profit looking to nurture young women of color to pursue college and foster leadership development.</p>
<p><img style="width: 92px; height: 116px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/la_bruja.jpg" /><span style="font-weight: bold">La Bruja</span>- La Bruja is an emcee, spoken word artist and actress. She has been featured on Def Poetry Jam, HBO Latina, toured various venues around the country and recorded several albums including Brujalicious.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold"><img style="width: 92px; height: 123px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/tasty_keish.jpg" />TastyKeish</span>- TastyKeish is one of the host of WBAI’s Rise up Radio and a rising Nightlife Personality. She has hosted parties at Madame X, Public Assembly, Sutra and other premier nightlife haunts around NYC.</p>
<p><img style="width: 92px; height: 115px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/jasi_baker_full.jpg" /><span style="font-weight: bold">Jasi B</span>. - This early 20 something has tried her hand at many a thing and parlayed her real life experience into a boutique creative and branding agency. She is an upwardly mobile creative professional and a future mover and shaker to watch.</p>
<p><img style="width: 92px; height: 138px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/natasha_parach.jpg" /><span style="font-weight: bold">Natasha Paracha</span>- Natasha is 2008’s Miss Pakistan. She is a humanitarian who created her own non-profit called Vision of Development. She also works for the United Nations.</p>
<p><font size="5"><span style="font-style: italic">That’s right ladies BLK Tees is on the come up…get some!</span></font>
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		<title>CONTEMPLATE: Harlem Heights, The Benefit of the Doubt</title>
		<link>http://www.blkgrl.com/blog/2009/03/24/contemplate-harlem-heights-the-benefit-of-the-doubt/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 16:08:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone,






I have to tell you something. I tried. I tried really, really hard. I tried really hard for good and bad reasons. I tried with optimism. I tried because I am Black. I tried because I am working on getting to comfortable, useful, productive outside my own bubble, fabulosity. I tried to relate to [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">I have to tell you something. I tried. I tried really, really hard. I tried really hard for good and bad reasons. I tried with optimism. I tried because I am Black. I tried because I am working on getting to comfortable, useful, productive outside my own bubble, fabulosity. I tried to relate to Harlem Heights. I really really did. I tried to like it. I went to the premiere. I talked to some of the cast. I had an optimistic open mind. I spoke to different friends and random folk. I watched it with the mister (after much pleading on my part and trying to hear over his frequent interjections of “this shait ain&#8217;t real” and repeated snickers). I watched more than one episode. </font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">I just can’t jump on the “good show” bandwagon. The only things that I may have in common with the portrayal of these folks is the fact that we live in the same city, although I am a native as opposed to the cast of transplants; we are close in age; and ummmmmm (thinking really really hard right now) that is it. </font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">My political soap box is in the closet and is not even needed for why I can’t get with the show. There is very little about the show, their chemistry, their clothes, their friends, their jobs, that is not manufactured and contrived for the sole purpose of being packaged for you to watch. I don’t know <strong>ANYBODY</strong> who interacts the way they do, both with each other and their surroundings. Their dramas are so pointless, especially in this day and age, that I wonder if any single person related to the show thought that anyone would get it. But there isn’t much to get… I am hoping and praying that one of the camera men will accidentally catch the cue card guy in a shot so that I can jump up and scream I told you so to anyone within 3 feet of me. I’d rather watch <em>Keeping up with the Kardashians</em> because at least I can like Kim’s makeup and won’t be subjected to a nasal scripted narration. I can even get with<em> Baldwin Hills</em> before this show because at least I know that they are immature and are trying to be adults and outright enjoying the fact that they are on TV. </font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">Well don’t give up your bedtime for it. Maybe you could watch it because it is raining terribly outside and you cable signal went down and the only channels that you are able to receive are <em>BET</em> and <em>Slavic International Network</em>. Otherwise, go be your age and do something productive. </font></p>
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		<title>The Black &#038; Brown Divide</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 21:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I happily live in a hood that is about 80% Latin. I value the weird juxtapositions that present themselves in my community. The backdrop of bodegas, chuletas with the dollar store Bamboo earrings, the old man and his son who blare bachata while beating their congas. Watching my little daughter wind her hips to the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I happily live in a hood that is about 80% Latin. I value the weird juxtapositions that present themselves in my community. The backdrop of <em>bodegas</em>, <em>chuletas</em> with the dollar store Bamboo earrings, the old man and his son who blare <strong>bachata</strong> while beating their congas. Watching my little daughter wind her hips to the beat of the drum while the weathered faces of women who look much older than they are encourage her, calling her <em>morenita</em> and <em>freca</em>, the old <em>papichuelo</em> in the beat up pizzeria who calls me big woman and tries to lure me into a bad salsa two step.</p>
<p>This is the community I live in, the community I fight for everyday with out the slightest bit of apology yet I know they mistrust me. I hear the conversations in the few pieces of Spanish I can understand, I am often deliberately</p>
<p><a id="more-68"></a> overlooked in stores, at restaurants, brushed aside because I am Black. I recently went into a dispatch station to catch a cab and a driver came out. He didn’t ask who was there first he asked the lady next to me something in Spanish and signaled for her to go. I looked in disbelief at the dispatcher who apologetically told me to just wait one minute he would get a cab for me. I had been standing there first but I didn’t exist, I wasn’t one of <em>“them”</em>. This has happened to me countless times, in countless places in my own community.<br />
This is what I have and am struggling with, when did I become a <em>“them”</em>. When did they become an <em>“us”</em>.  I feel a comradery with my Brown neighbors that is not always reciprocated.</p>
<p>But it comes from my folks as well. Often I hear my Black friends and neighbors verbalize their mistrust and distaste for their Latin counterparts and I am just as dumbfounded and viewed naive when I object to the generalization.</p>
<p>Sheiiit, lets be real, Brown people don’t trust each other, my Puerto Rican neighbor often talks about how dumb and backwards Dominicans are. And shit everyone makes fun of and ostracizes the Mexicans.<br />
The reality is we need to wake up. It is this type of residual <strong>imperialistic</strong> and <strong>racist</strong> internalizations that stops us from creating progress. We so often get caught up in the differences we fail to realize that we face many of same barriers even if the variants are different, the results are quite often the same. We also fail to check ourselves on how we continue to perpetuate many of the systematic oppressions that we have more often than not been the victims of. And the truth of the matter people is that as long as we continue to perpetuate the victimization of another group of brown and black people, including the various shades that make up the group we belong to then don’t be surprised that we keep getting stuck and can’t evolve as fast as we would like.</p>
<p>It is very simple.  We need each other and our inability to love each other reflects our inability to love an intricate part of ourselves.
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		<title>CONTEMPLATE: The BET Harlem Heights Premiere- The Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 19:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leave it to BET to rework an MTV show. Pass the originality please…..I have never brought myself to exchange an irreplaceable hour of my time for The Hills or any of that other melodramatic pale-faced malarkey ( I’ve read about it in passing though), so in seeing all of the promotion for Harlem Heights, Black [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">Leave it to BET to rework an MTV show. Pass the originality please…..I have never brought myself to exchange an irreplaceable hour of my time for The Hills or any of that other melodramatic pale-faced malarkey ( I’ve read about it in passing though), so in seeing all of the promotion for Harlem Heights, Black Erosion Television’s new pseudo reality offering, I didn’t know what to expect. I even made my way uptown to see the premiere and what all the hoopla was about…</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">With wide-ranging, scenic shots of Harlem streets and staple hot spots, Harlem Heights definitely makes use of their ninth cast member. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">For those unfamiliar with the village of <span style="border-bottom: 1px dashed #0066cc; cursor: pointer" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_0">Harlem</span> it is the gentrification capital of New York City , once the epicenter of the Negro Renaissance. <strong><span style="border-bottom: 1px dashed #0066cc; cursor: pointer" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_1">Malcolm X</span></strong> spoke in these streets. <strong>Adam Clayton Powell</strong> repped Harlemites in <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_2">Washington</span> and elsewhere. <strong>W.E.B Dubois, <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_3">Marcus Garvey</span>, <span style="border-bottom: 1px dashed #0066cc; cursor: pointer" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_4">Zora Neale Hurston</span></strong>, the list goes on and on. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">And herein lies part of the problem. Harlem Heights is more of the black version of The Hills than a New Negro <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_5">Revolution</span> caught on camera. While the eight central cast members are likable enough, theirs is a concocted microcosm that while not entirely wrong, is a bit out of touch with real life. Yes it is absolutely refreshing to see colored folks not fighting to the moral death in an arena of buffoonery and coonishness for a whole three minutes of fame. And it helps that they are doing things other than the traditional music and sports to get their names in lights. They all seem bright and ambitious. They are well dressed thanks to June Ambrose’s guiding hand. They are well spoken, courtesy of collegiate completion. And in a city where the cost of living is ginormous they have the semblance of being well heeled.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman"> This is this not a reality for most of their native neighbors. Harlem is being gentrified by the yuppy hipsters, but there are still a collection of social ills that plague colored Harlem folk. To actually see productive colored folks move uptown in an effort to preserve some of the, well, color is commendable. Their political analysis (so far) is trite, narrow minded and borderline ig’nant. Yes Barack made it to the <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_6">Oval Office</span>, but please please please do not equate that with the dams of systematic and institutionalized racism crashing down for regular everyday folks. There are still class and socioeconomic issues that play into so many of the lives of people in Harlem and other urban areas, that the Obama effect is only just beginning to touch. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><img style="width: 400px; height: 266px" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/harlem_heights_premiere.JPG" /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%">The Cast at the 3/2/09 Premiere at the Apollo</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">I am not so much making an indictment of the choices (personal, connections, nepotism or otherwise) that were made to get them to this point. I’m just saying…</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 150%"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman">At times dialogue and interactions seem awkward and forced. The narration is a bit shrill and could use more bass. </font></p>
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<p><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman"> Pierre is the “pretty boy” former college basketball star with family issues that he is trying to overcome. Brooke is the <span style="border-bottom: 1px dashed #0066cc; cursor: pointer" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_7">MTV</span> producer and ex-girlfriend of <span style="border-bottom: 1px dashed #0066cc; cursor: pointer" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_8">Kanye West</span>. Landon is the son of former public affairs director and community developer Larry Dais. Bridget is also a former MTV employee and good friends with Brooke and cousin to Briana who is the technical designer for Victoria ’s Secret Pink. Jason is the single dad and a native of Harlem. Ashlie is the bartender by night, actress by day and frenemie of Brooke. And Christian is the Morehouse alum and Lifestyle Editor of <span style="background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 0%; cursor: pointer; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial" class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1236191641_9">Dime Magazine</span>. </font></font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">I will be tuning in just to see how this all plays out. Can’t say I’ll be riveted and glued to  the couch, but there will always be the reruns. </font></font>
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		<title>CONTEMPLATE: The BET Harlem Heights Premiere- The Swag Bag</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 13:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Monday, March 2nd, NuNu and I went to the NYC BET Premiere of Harlem Heights at the Apollo. I will leave the review up to NuNu but I was impressed by Ambi&#8217;s new branding strategy and the Goody Bag that was put together, which consisted of products and coupons from locally owned (many Black owned) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday, March 2nd, NuNu and I went to the NYC BET Premiere of Harlem Heights at the Apollo. I will leave the review up to NuNu but I was impressed by Ambi&#8217;s new branding strategy and the Goody Bag that was put together, which consisted of products and coupons from locally owned (many Black owned) businesses was pretty awesome too!</p>
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		<title>CONGREGATE: Holistic Hood</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 23:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is for all my Uptown Grls or those who don&#8217;t mind visiting! We hope to see you there&#8230;


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is for all my Uptown Grls or those who don&#8217;t mind visiting! We hope to see you there&#8230;</p>
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		<title>CONTEMPLATE: Ignant Ish We Like</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 20:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So way back when on my now defunct personal blog I touched upon this subject once before and not so coincidentally, it also included the same suspects.
I consider myself a pretty conscious, righteous person. I mean like any person I have my conundrums and contradictions but when it comes to music I liken it to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So way back when on my now defunct <a target="_blank" href="http://withoutstrugglenoprogress.blogspot.com">personal blog</a> I touched upon this subject once before and not so coincidentally, it also included the same suspects.</p>
<p>I consider myself a pretty conscious, righteous person. I mean like any person I have my conundrums and contradictions but when it comes to music I liken it to food. What you put in will surely have an affect on what comes out. If you want to think clearly, evolve as a person then watch what your mind consumes and sorry kids most of the shit in the mainstream music business is utter nonsense.</p>
<p><font size="5"><strong>BUT</strong></font></p>
<p>I have to admit, I freaking love The Dream. There I said it and I feel like a load has been lifted off of my chest. Everything this man has produced and put out and in the last year, I have been all over it. <em>I Love Your Girl</em>, yep. <em>Falsetto</em>, yep. <em>Rockin That Shit</em>, yep.<br />
<img width="168" height="174" src="http://blkgrl.com/tmp/dream.jpg" /></p>
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<p><font size="2"><font size="2">Ex:<em> She rode the D, like a pony<br />
Cameras up, cameras flash.<br />
I&#8217;m tispy, tryna relax.<br />
I wanna change your name to Mrs. Nash.<br />
Cause there&#8217;s nothing left to say</em>.</font></font></p>
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If her body is rocking, she can shake it like a salt shaker and suck a dick like a Hoover then suddenly she is worthy of the love of a man. Now, not that all these things aren&#8217;t useful assets in CONTEXT, the problem is the songs of this type continually perpetuate sexism, machismo and misogyny.</font></font></p>
<p><font size="2"><font size="2">And intellectual women much like myself will rock that thang to it?</font></font></p>
<p><font size="2"><font size="2"><strong>How do you reconcile that without becoming a complete hypocrite? </strong> </font> </font>
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